babies and stuff..
She got her hair done yesterday and she’s been preening ever since. Her first visit to a hairdresser without us in tow, she had to go herself as I couldn’t get out of work and niether could Mammy2. She was chuffed with herself, her hair being her pride and joy, I sometimes think she’s more like a Leo then a Cancer.
So last night was the big night for baby making, the kid left the shape of herself in the door on
her way to her best mates. There was no way apparently that she was sticking around for
us going at it!
I was starting to show nerves as the day progressed yesterday mainly because it started to feel
real. This is something that we have been talking about for 3 years and pla nning for a year and a half and now it was finally happening, it felt odd!
I got a few emails from the sister in Holland wishing us all the best and mentioning cheerleaders!!
She’s very thoughtful like that!
With the child out of the apartment, we were relaxing when the doorbell rang and it was our donor.
He was grand and relaxed and we chatted about what his plans were for the evening etc.
He did the deed and headed out for the night and we had to prepare ourselves. It was interesting, both of us were nervous but everything went according to plan.
A funny moment before we started, we were switching off the mobile phone and we got a message from one of our friends who we haven’t seen in a while and she asked had we any plans for the night.
Mammy2 texted her back what we were up to and she sent back a response along the lines of
“Go on sperm , you can do it! Swim”
I’m sure they heard her as well! I was wrecked yesterday after the stress of the last few days with a second interiew etc, so I got an early night while Mammy2 stayed up until the child returned.
The child barreled into the room and asked if I was pregnant, I explained that it was a bit too soon to tell.
When you are trying its best to do it more then once, hence this morning we were back at it again.
The poor kid wanted to get hair gel from the bathroom but was terrified of seeing the yoghurt pot!
And now its all done and its a case of waiting.
The kid is having an off day today, she rang me earlier to say that her year head , she’s a coot,
wants 25 notes for all the days she was absent. We’re meeting this woman on Tuesday and I can’t wait. I have a few things I shall be telling her.
wow, I wish you all the best with that, you are going to post and let us know what happens.
sorry to have lost you offa lj.
but i’m saving yer page to my fave’s so I don’t loose track of you.
take care.
aby
Everyone has days when they are down, worn out, anxiety disorder child and just not feeling all that happy.
That’s OK, you need to have days like this, otherwise how would you know when you are happy. You need to have something to contrast your happiness with. What is black without white?
Even though you know that sadness (anxiety disorder child) is a part of life, let’s try to make it a small part of life.
With that said, here are a few tips to help you feel better when you are feeling down in the dumps. They are easy to do, easy to practice every day and they work!
1. Stand up straight, sit up straight. When your body is in alignment your energy can flow and when your energy is flowing freely, you can flow.
2. Smile! Yes, just smile. Easy to do and effective.
3. Repeat positive affirmations. Things like “I feel good”, “Positive energy flows through my body”, “I see the good in all”.
4. Listen to some music that you like. It doesn’t have to be anything specific, just something you enjoy. Certain types of music work better than others, but experiment and see what works for you. Studies have shown that Classical music and new age music work best.
5. Take some time out for yourself, relax and read a book, do something for yourself.
6. Meditate. Meditation is an excellent habit to develop. It will serve you in all that you do. If you are one who has a hard time sitting still, then try some special meditation CDs that coax your brain into the meditative state. Just search for “Meditation music” on Google or Yahoo and explore.
Our outside work is simply a reflection of our inside world. Remember there is no reality just your perception of it. Use this truth to your advantage. Whenever you are sad, realize that it is all in your mind and you do have the power to change your perception.
These tips will lift you up when you are down, but don’t just use them when you are sad or anxiety disorder child . Try and practice them everyday, make them a habit. You will be surprised at how these simple exercises will keep the rainy days away.
On a final note, if you are in a deep depression that you can’t seem to shake, please go see a doctor. This is your life and don’t take any chances. anxiety disorder child